Adult Dating Blog

Well, it’s pretty much summer time here in the North East.  Whenever summertime rolls around, it’s fling season.  In terms of adult dating, summer is the diametric opposite of winter.  In winter, woman want to cuddle.  In summer, they want to blossom!

This is the time of year where you really need to work to find a couple of members from an online dating site.  These will be your anchors.  As such, you will be their anchor.  You need to have a somewhat steady for the season.  The reason being, summer time can be so spontaneous.  I don’t want to use the term “dating standby”, but you need a dating standby.

It’s easier to find women that are just looking to fling around during the summer months.  Everyone wants to get out, have fun and get down!

Make sure you are in full force on the adult dating sites.  Also, you will be changing your tactic a little bit.  You don’t have to be so much the gentleman during this season.  Just fit the part that you are.  That part is simply looking to have fun and perhaps some NSA adult dating.  Don’t be afraid to make that known.  Lay your cards on the table.  By doing so, you will only benefit yourself and the women you talk to will appreciate your honesty.

Now, this does not mean to be lewd.  You still have to have manners.  Just don’t be so coy about your intentions.  If you play your cards right, the women will not only understand, but quite a few will share your standpoint and take you up on your offers.

Don’t say I didn’t tell you so!!!

When it comes to adult dating, we’ve all heard them.  You see pick up lines in movies about dating.  Your female friends will tell you about some she may have heard that night and laugh…heartily.  Some people use them, some don’t.  Sometimes they work, most times they don’t.

Some people can be successful using pick up lines for adult dating.  It depends first off on what the lines are.  If you are going to use the same old, corny cliche lines, do so jokingly.  And use them sparingly.  If you want to use one just break the ice, go for it.  But let it be known that you are not serious.  If you are taken as serious, you will be laughed at.  Be prepared.

Now, welcome to the 21st century.  Pick up lines do not have to be corny.  Or the same old same old.  Have a routine that you use.  Something you are good at.  Maybe you know trivial facts.  Find some cool and interesting ones and try those out.  Keep it simple at first though.  If you say, “Hey, do you know how many miles the sun is from the Earth?” and she doesn’t know, you will make her feel stupid.  Don’t do that.

You need to demonstrate that you are worth talking to.  You need something that will get you “in”.  You need to get her attention.  You can make yourself seem smarter than her, but don’t make her feel stupid.  It will make her uncomfortable.

When using your lines, have funny ones, witty ones and intelligent ones.  Think of things to say before you go to a bar or chat it up at an online adult dating site.  Practice them.  This may sound funny, but it’s all in the delivery.  If you screw up the delivery, you’ve lost right there on the spot.  If you start fumbling for words, your plan has backfired and you only demonstrated that you are an imbecile.  You do not want to be an imbecile.

Now, it does not have to be funny or trivial.  Maybe you can come up with something that is interactive.  Like a magic trick.

Once you have your ice breaker, you need something to keep the conversation going.  Make sure you have lines that you can use as fillers.  Fillers are used when the conversation has not yet flowed and there is a short lag of silence.  No one wants to think about what to say next.  Be prepared so that does not happen.  If you demonstrate that you can control the situation, you are in.

This is just a brief, and there is more where this came from.  I hope you understand the point and now have something to think about that will help you in your adult dating experiences.  If it hasn’t sunk in yet, think about it.  It’s so simple, but it could just be the missing piece of the puzzle for you.

So you want to get laid.  Well, the first thing you need is a good adult personals site.  Yes, that is a link to a site that I recommend.

I’m deviating from my core themes with this post, but we are only human and we all have needs.  I’m recognizing these needs here.  Now, I’m only going to scratch the surface here.  I’m thinking about making a series that provides tips on how to get laid tonight.

Okay, back to how to get laid.  Once you’ve found your adult personals site of choice and create a profile you need to find a like minded member and fire off an email.  For tips on how to properly construct a good email message, check out How to write your first adult dating email.

The most important thing is to establish a line of correspondence.  Make sure to email as many members that interest you as possible.  The most important thing to remember is this; patience.  It’s certainly possible to find someone and then get laid that same night.  Especially when you are a member of a good adult personals site geared towards sex.  However, have patience.  More than likely it will take a little time and a healthy exchange of communication is a must in order to get laid.

It’s usually best to find a member that you are interested in early in the week.  This gives you a few days to put some work in to set yourself up for the end of the week.

Okay, so now you have a few members that you are interested in and you’ve fired off your first emails to them.  You get a reply back.  This is where you have to have some tact.  You need to properly interpret the vibe that the other member is sending you.  Some members will simply be ready for sex right out of the gate, but not all will.  The ones that don’t need to feel a certain sense of comfort before talking about sex.  You need to understand this and follow the rules of engagement accordingly.

At some point you will have to introduce sex into the conversation.  I know I said to have patience, but if you wait too long, you will lose that member and you will not get laid.  Try to find out what they like in terms of sex.  Make sure you are on the same page.

Remember, you are both here for the same reasons, but adding a touch of being personal will go a long way.  After all, if things work out well, wouldn’t you want to keep this connection open for a while rather than a one time occurrence?

As I said, this is only an introduction to the topic and I’m only scratching the surface here.  Primarily, this article is to let you now that you can very easily get laid from and online adult dating or adult personals site.

Here is your first tip:  After an exchange of pleasantries, talk about her pick.  Tell her that she takes a good picture.  Ask her if the photo is recent.  Then, ask her if she has more.  Once people are comfortable, they love to share pics.  Each one will be more revealing than the previous.  Be prepared though, you will need pics of your own.  Yes, you will have to share.

When you provide pics of yourself, hold of on the full monty pic.  Do not show yourself in your full glory with the full pic.  You need to have subtle pics at first.  Each subsequent pic should be more revealing.  You have to play this part correctly because you need to use the tease factor.  Remember, our imaginations are the most potent aspect of sexuality.  Leave intrigue in the equation.  Tease and you will find your prize.

Okay, I’m leaving this off here for now.  I am going to add a lot more about this topic in the coming month.  I will make things very clear and outlined and also very detailed.  It will be a blueprint for how to get laid online.

In the beginning of this article I provided a link to a great sex dating resource site.  For other sites, have a look at my adult personals recommendation page from the main site.

Leave comments with any questions you may have or if you would like me to write about any specific aspect about how to get laid using online adult dating sites.