Adult Dating

You’ve heard of DUI (driving under the influence), and now you are going to learn about CUI (chatting under the influence) and how it can ruin an online adult dating prospect.  Everyone likes to have fun now and then, but make sure your “fun having” does not disrupt your adult dating experience.

We’ve all heard of it, we all know of it and yet…we all still do it.  You’re with your friends and you decide to tie one on for the evening.  You and your friend part ways at the closing of the evening.  But you are just getting going now.  You couldn’t just leave it at a good night.  You quickly recollect that adult dating member you are anxious to talk to again.  Let’s send that adult dating member an email!  Better yet. let’s see if that adult dating member is online and up for a chat!

Ah ha!  You’re in luck!  That adult dating member IS online.  You initiate a chat.  The adult dating member accepts and you begin to type.  What makes sense in your mind is really nothing more than a streaming of babble akin to sour milk that is polluting the screen with your minutiae.  You think you are a king saying all of the right things to his people.  You are the greatest man alive.  If she does not like what you are saying, it must be the adult dating members fault for not realizing who you are.  You are the shit after all.

Well, it seemed like a good idea at the time.  But when you wake up the next day and the haze starts to lift after a few minutes, it hits you.  Oh shit, what the hell did I do last night?  Did I…no, I didn’t.  But you did.  And you know it.

You rush to the computer to see what you may have fired off in an email to that adult dating member.  As you begin to read, your jaw is dropping, widening with every line you read.  You quickly realize that you have not only made a complete ass of yourself, but you have unequivocally drove that one adult dating member away.  That one adult dating member that you were sure you could have really connected with and possibly have formed a meaningful adult relationship.  You slap your forehead…hard.

The moral of the above is simple.  You know you are not supposed to do it…so don’t!  Don’t let a little fun ruin your adult dating experiences.  Adult dating is difficult enough as it is, so don’t screw up your opportunities.  Learn from your mistakes and you will have a great and fruitful adult dating experience.

Tags: adult dating, dating tips

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